Distinguishing the Old Ethics of Sacrifice

from the New Ethics of Integrity

Essential ethical distinctions as expressed in the world

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Ethical systems are rarely expressed by any one person or group of adherents fully and consistently. To the extent that a group of people more consistently expresses themselves congruently within the essentialized Old Ethics of Sacrifice, those people will incur increasing suffering and dysfunction, ultimately limiting how "purely" they can express themselves as "really good people."

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The hodgepodge of ethics

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Consequently, the ethical meme set as expressed through any identifiable person or group of people is likely to be some hodgepodge, inconsistent mixture of the Old Ethics of Sacrifice and the New Ethics of Integrity. 

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To the extent that it predominates toward the Old Ethics as a total mixture, suffering will increase. To the extent that it contains major consistent elements of the New Ethics as a mixture, happiness, peace, self-expression, goodwill, and cooperation will result.

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The topics below are divided into six groups:

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• Karaoke play tools

• Ones that address the issue of ethics as a whole

• Ones that focus equally on distinguishing and explicating the Ethics of Sacrifice and the Ethics of Integrity

• Ones that converge more heavily on understanding the Ethics of Sacrifice

• Ones that spotlight more clearly the Ethics of Integrity 

• Ones that distinguish the nature and influence of the HOGAB

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Karaoke play tools

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• 30,000 Days! And Just Getting Started... (6:24)

• Because Being Negative Is Hard (6:43) 

• Byron Katie: Voice Cloned (3:23)

• Bragging Rights: I Found It First (3:08)

• Car Authorities (3:23)

• Do I Have To (Get To) Be The First? (6:07)

• Does Reality Count? (3:19)

• The Élanist (4:38)

• Evolution Has Tricked Us (2:54)

• Falling From Grace (4:42)

• Fiction To Fact: A Life Based In Joy (3:25)

• Four Guidelines of Ethics (3:52)

• First Job Is You (3:48)

• Game Of Good And Bad (5:02)

• Guiltless World (3:47)

• House of Verbal Violence (1 of 3) (3:07)

• House of Verbal Violence (2 of 3) (3:18)

• House Undivided (3:06)

• Innocence Reprised (3:51)

• I'm A Factualist: Are You Too? (3:31)

• I Am The One (3:10)

• "I Trust Everybody" (3;57)

• Joy In The Journey (2:37)

• Joy's Inspirations 'Round Me About (5:28)

• Justice Wants Some Hell (3:56)

• Keep Leisure In Your Busy (4:22)

• Lay Your Weapons Down (2:30)

• Loving Yourself First: But How? (3:27)

• No Place To Stand In Shifting Sands (3:59)

• Not Your Motive, Always Your Map (3:37, 3:09, 3:55, & 3:12)

• Re-Earning Your Known Maps (3:50)

• Reward Will Come (Much) Later (3:35 & 3:15)

• Science Of Shoulds (2:46)

• Selfish Generosity (2:28)

• Serenity Prayer: On Steroids (5:22) ​

• A Song Of Integrity (4:10)

• Spell Of "I Choose" (3:15)

• Surract! Surract! (3:03)

• The I, The Chooser, And The Soul (5:42)

• The Loser's Game: Fighting With Reality (5:33)

• The Toddler: North Star And Role Model (5:46)

• Tongue Betrayals: A 1000+ Each Day (2:35)

• Two Simple Facts To Save Humanity (4:10)

• Unilateral Ethics (3:20)

• What Do You Want For Your "Sorry"? (5:14)

• What Is Fair? (3:20)

• Which Road? Sacrifice Or Integrity? (4:57)

• Willpower: A Toxic Virtue (5:06)

• Words You Speak, Worlds You Create (3:45 & 2:17)

• A Wraith of Words (3:09)

• Your Buried Child (5:28)

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Door Openers

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• First Things First: Or You'll Be Cursed (2:37)

• You And Me: So Different, So The Same (4:54)

• The Handshake Or The Handout (7:10)

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I Am - You Are - We Are

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• 23 Life Inspirations (4:34)

• Twenty-Seven Beauties, Buried Alive (6:53)

• Part 1 - Twenty-Eight Down: The Slow Consent (6:15)

• Part 2 - Twenty-Eight Found: Nothing To Prove (4:44)

• Never Our Fists, Our Tongues Will Do (6:08)

• Who's That Talking Out Your Mouth? (6:00)

• "I Am Asking" (5:19)

• "I Am Belonging" (5:56)

• "I Am Curiosity" (3:38)

• "I Am Forever Dawning" (5:08)

• "I Am Innocence" (3:44)

• "I Am Powerless" (4:35)

• "I Am Refusing" (5:25)

• "I Am Silliness" (3:37)

• "Sovereign Am I" (4:18)

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Fundamental premises of ethics

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Ethics

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• I'm An Élanist: Are You? (+ karaoke suite)

• Pyrrhicism Vs Élanvitalism: Fundamentals (+ karaoke suite)

• Premises Of The New Ethics Of Integrity

• Two Simple Facts Can Save Humanity (+ karaoke suite)

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• 0 Is Greater Than 10, Right?

• A science of ethics (+ karaoke suite)

• All For One And One For All (+ karaoke suite)

• Are You Listening To All Your Parts?

• Byron Katie Resources

• Bragging: You saw here first (+ karaoke suite)

• The Car Authorities

• Conversations with Aiko: resolving ethical fundamentals

• Do You Believe In Reality? (+ karaoke suite)

• Does Your Foundation Keep Collapsing? (+ karaoke suite)

• Enjoying The Process First: So Obvious (+ karaoke suite)

• Epistemology: How Do You Know That?

• Ethics As Behavioral Engineering

• Evolution: How It Fucked With Our Brain (+ karaoke suite)

• External problem bias

• Factbelief

• Fatebelief

• Fair: can we agree on its meaning? (+ karaoke suite)

• Fall From Grace: The Truth And The Myths (+ karaoke suite)

• Four rules of ethics

• Getting smart about ethics-video

• How you became a victim
• I Am Because I Am Saying So (+ karaoke suite)
• "I Trust Everyone" (+ karaoke suite)
• Judgmentalness: Essential for Society? (+ karaoke suite)
• Just Another Viewpoint: Really?! (+ karaoke room)
• Justice = Revenge? (+ karaoke suite)
• Keep Leisure In Busy & Selfish In Giving (+ karaoke suite)
• Landmark Education: Its Glory And Gloom (+ karaoke suite)

• Leaving innocence: the child's dilemma (+ karaoke suite)

• Love Yourself First: But How? (+ karaoke suite)

• My Destiny (+ karaoke room)

• Negative Is Hard, Positive Is Easy (+ karaoke room)

• Our Biased Language (+ karaoke suite)

• Our Maps, Not Motives, Are The Problem (+ karaoke suite)

• ReKnowing: The Key To Wisdom (+ karaoke suite)

• Root Of All Evil: "I Choose" (+ karaoke room)

• Sacrificial Ideas On Steroids (+ karaoke room)

• Scientific ethics-video

• Surraction: Key To An Easy Peasy Life (+ karaoke suite)

• The "Machinery" And The "I" + Who's That Talking Out Your Mouth? (6:00)

• Time and I: the problems

• Unilateral Ethics (+ karaoke room)

• Verbal Violence

• Verbal Violence: Can You Stop? (1 of 3) (+ karaoke suite)

• Verbal Violence: Can You Stop? (2 of 3) (+ karaoke suite)

• Verbal Violence: Disarmament (3 of 3)  (+karaoke suite)

• Via Negativa

• What Does Your "Sorry" Mean? (+ karaoke suite)

• Why Give Directions To A Stranger? (+ karaoke suite)

• Words You Use: Do They Serve Or Enslave? (+ karaoke suite)

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The Ethics of Sacrifice and the Ethics of Integrity

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• Contrasting the New Ethics with the Old Ethics

• FFI toolkit (Fright-Fearless Integrity)

• Is selfishness bad?

• NNI toolkit (Now-Next Integrity)

• OOI toolkit (Oneself-Others Integrity)

• The Buried Self (+ karaoke suite)

• The problem with words

• Undoing shoulds: introduction

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The Ethics of Sacrifice

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• HOBAG Topics

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• Are You Teaching Your Kids To Be Violent? (+ karaoke suite)

• How virtues are not really virtues-video

• Garden Of Eden: It's There Within (+ karaoke suite)

• How To Shoot Yourself In The Foot: Defend (+ karaoke suite)

• How you became a victim

• Faultseeding: Our #1 Toxic Habit (+karaoke suite)

• Fighting With Reality + The Loser's Game: Fighting With Reality (5:33)

• Old Ethics of Sacrifice

• Old Ethics of Sacrifice-video

• Original Identities And Their Eclipse (+ karaoke suite) (+ karaoke suite)

• Religion: a major purveyor and perpetrator of the Ethics of Sacrifice

• Willpower: A Toxic Virtue (+ karaoke suite)

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The Ethics of Integrity

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• Adultolepic Zombiosis: Lawful Kidnapping (+ karaoke suite)

• Anatomy of Integrity (+ karaoke suite)

• Happy as 1800? The New Ethics-video

• How Is It Possible That I Am The First? (+ karaoke suite)

• I'm A Factualist: Are You? (+ karaoke suite)

• Integrity

• New Ethics of Integrity

• One Image: A Daily Fountain Of Joy (+ karaoke suite)

• Premises Of The New Ethics Of Integrity (+ karaoke suite)

• Serenity Prayer: On Steroids (+ karaoke suite)

• Silliness Is Great! (What The Fuck?) (+ karaoke suite)

• The Toddler: Both North Star And Role Model (+ karaoke suite)

• The two hands

• Who Children =We= Are (+ karaoke suite)

• You Are Powerless (+ karaoke suite)

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Becoming aware of the HOGAB and learning to do without it

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• Undoing shoulds: victimhood

• Undoing shoulds: selfishness

• Undoing shoulds: assessment and righteousness

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