HOGAB definition

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Karaoke play tools

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• Being A Good Guy (3:35)

• Beyond Good And Bad (2:57)

• Beyond The Pale Of Right And Wrong (4:07)

• Blades We Choose (4:45)

• Chains of Should (3:35)

• The Debt That Never Was (3:52)

• Denial Of Self-Love (3:42)

• Dirty Choices (3:07)

• Do We Need Guilt And Shame (2:51)

• Do You Have Permission To Live? (4:00)

• Dying To Look Good (3:38)

• The Ethics Engineer (2:30)

• Faultseeding? Or Freedom? (4:57)

• Game Of Good And Bad (5:02)

• Give⇔And⇔Take (4:25)

• Give Me Blame, I'll Give You Guilt (4:00)

• Good Guys Are Bad Guys In Disguise (3:57)

• Good Guys Need The Bad Guys (7:13)

• Goodness Requires You Be A Victim (3:35)

• The Guise Of The Cynic (3:30)

• "I Have To." You're Lying (4:43)

• Imp-Boy Apology For Dad's Big Mistake (3:29)

• Imp-Boy's Hospital Play (2:36)

• Imp-Boy Now Lives With Dad: Possessed In Bangkok (3:07) 

• Imp-Boy Now Lives With Dad: Possessed In Bangkok2 (3:43) 

• Judgment And Ethics (3:12)

• Just Two Things To Fix (3:59)

• Lay Your Weapons Down (2:30)

• Let's Blame Me First (3:15)

• Life As Your Playground (3:19)

• Life Is Your Buffet (3:02)

• Mia's Journey: Will She Prove It? (3:43)

• Mindfulness About Their Mechanisms (3:58)

• Mirror Game (3:27)

• No Place To Stand In Shifting Sands (3:59)

• No Regrets Before You Die (2:36)

• No Villains, No Saints (3:03)

• Our Nuts In A Vice (3:20)

• Other Side Of The Same Coin (4:32)

• Personal Ecology: Integrity Witnin (3:23)

• "Please Let Me Die!" (6:14)

• Re-Earning Your Known Maps (3:50)

• Righteousness Trap (4:00)

• Roles That Play The Player (4:09)

• Savoring The Hunger (3:55)

• Shoulda, Coulda, Woulda (1:56)

• So Valuable! Being A Victim (5:17)

• A Song Of Integrity (4:10)

• Spell Of Good And Bad (2:53)

• Unleash Your Child (3:32)

• House of Verbal Violence (1 of 3) (3:07)

• House of Verbal Violence (2 of 3) (3:18)

• Vote Me The Victim (2:13)

• The Wise Know Less Than You Do (3:57)

• Words That Divide (2:46)

• Words That Use Us (3:50)

• Words You Wear Like Chains (3:12)

• World's Best Apologizer: Contest Announced (3:10)

• A Wraith Of Words (3:09)

• Your Happiness Permission Committee (5:06)

• You're Fucked And That's Great (2:39)

• Victim's Game: Everyone Wants to Play (2:48)

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Door Openers

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• Are Your Life Guideposts Lying To You (5:51)

• Blame (And Guilt): The Sucker's Bet (4:29)

• Defensiveness: It Takes Two To Fight (5:28)

• How Scary Would The World Be? (3:02)

• Stupid On Top Of Stupid (4:36)

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Other tools

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• o Is Greater Than 10, Right? (+ karaoke room)

• Anatomy of Integrity (+ karaoke room)

• All for one and one for all (+ karaoke room)

• All story actors are HOGAB union members

• Anesthesia: a benefit of blame and guilt

• Are you a cynic? (+ karaoke room)

• Are You A Guilt Puller? (+ karaoke room)

• Are you dying to look good? (+ karaoke room)

• Ayn Rand: What She Got Right (And Wrong) (+ karaoke room)

• Ayn Rand's big mistake

• Biggest Life Challenge: Unlearning (+ karaoke suite)

• Bogus ideas: choice, good, and bad (+ karaoke room)

• Byron Katie Vs. NLP (+ karaoke suite)

• Catching Ourselves In The Act (+ karaoke room)

• Competition for Victimhood (+ karaoke room)

• Contrasting the New Ethics with the Old Ethics

• The Debt That Never Was (+ karaoke room)

• Dirty Choices (+ karaoke room)

• Distrust: the key to more trust (+ karaoke room)

• Do we need guilt and shame? (+ karaoke room)

• Do You Have A Right To Exist? (+ karaoke suite)

• Do You "Have To"? (+ karaoke suite)

• The Enemies Of Hunger (+ karaoke suite)

• Enjoying The Process First: So Obvious (+ karaoke suite)

• Ethics As Behavioral Engineering (+ karaoke room)

• Faultseeding: Our #1 Toxic Habit (+ karaoke suite)

• Fixing two things fixes everything (+ karaoke suite)

• Fooled By Your Own Method Acting (+ karaoke suite)

• The good addict: your nuts are in a vice (+ karaoke room)

• Good and bad are both bad (+ karaoke room)

• Good Guys Are Bad Guys In Disguise (+ karaoke room)

• Good Guys Need The Bad Guys (+ 

• A Good Person Cannot Love Themselves (+ karaoke room)

• Goodness Requires Becoming A Victim (+ karaoke suite)

• How Innocent Are You? (+ karaoke suite)

• How To Shoot Yourself In The Foot: Defend (+ karaoke suite)

• How you became a victim

• "I should be the victim"

• If You're Ethical, You're Judgmental (+ karaoke room)

• Imp-Boy Announces Best Apology Contest (9:07) (+ karaoke suite)

• Imp-Boy Apologies For His Dad (7:05) (+ karaoke suite)

• Imp-Boy Begs For Death (16:07) (+ karaoke suite)

• Imp-Boy: Can Mia Prove It? (20:20) (+ karaoke suite)

• Imp-Boy's Playmates Found In Hospital (+ karaoke suite)

• Impy Unveils Your Permission Clique (+ karaoke suite)

• Is it fair? (+ karaoke room)

• Just Another Viewpoint: Really?! (+ karaoke room)

• Leaving Innocence And The Garden Of Eden (4:08)

• Life is Your Buffet (+ karaoke room)

• Looking Good: Our #1 Fear & #1 Addiction (+ karaoke room)

• No Choice

• Objectifying others shows wisdom (+ karaoke room)

• Our Biased Language (+ karaoke room)

• Passing The "Good Guy" Test (+ karaoke room)

• Pyrrhicism Vs Élanvitalism: Fundamentals (+ karaoke suite)

• Rebellion: Other Side Of The Same Coin (+ karaoke suite)

• ReKnowing: The Key To Wisdom (+ karaoke suite)

• Regrets of the Dying (+ karaoke room)

• Rob Meets Imp-Boy (+ karaoke suite)

• Root Of All Evil: "I Choose" (+ karaoke room)

• The Satirical Cynic's Cyclopedia (+ karaoke suite)

• Unconscious Shoulding: Toxic Buildup? + karaoke suite

• "Should" finally defined (+ karaoke suite)

• Shoulda: What A Sham It Is (+ karaoke suite)

• So Valuable! Being A Victim (+ karaoke suite)

• Toxic Words: A Walk In The Park (+ karaoke suite)

• Undoing guilt (+ karaoke suite)

• Undoing shoulds: the HOGAB as addictive

• Undoing shoulds: kids and cats (+ karaoke suite)

• Validation: A Problematic Idea (+ karaoke suite)

• Verbal Violence: Can You Stop? (1 of 3) (+ karaoke suite)

• Verbal Violence: Can You Stop? (2 of 3) (+ karaoke suite)

• Verbal Violence: Disarmament (3 of 3) (+karaoke suite)

• Victimhood: all the good people do it (+ karaoke suite)

• Which paradigm uses you? (+ karaoke suite)

• Which Sword To Use: Blame Or Guilt? (+ karaoke suite)

• Who Are The Others? (+ karaoke suite)

• Why You Abandoned The Garden Of Eden

• Will The Real Bad Guy Please Stand Up? +karaoke Good Guys Need the Bad Guys

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