Marriages: I Build And Destroy Them (DO)

~I both save and destroy marriages

As a life coach, I have worked with many couples/individuals

who were married but were having significant difficulties

in their marriage.

For some marriages, we decided together that the best outcome

would be to go for

creating a great new marriage and partnership.

For these marriages, you could say

that I "helped save the marriage."

For other marriages, we decided together that the best outcome

would be to go for creating

a great divorce and separation for all sides.

For these marriages, you could say that

I "helped to destroy the marriage."

Interesting way to think about it, right?!

Marriages: I Both Build and Destroy Them

When I start a conversation where the marriage is cracked,

We look at what’s not happy and at what still attracts.

With some we build a new marriage right there from the old,

With others we create an ending that’s better than gold.

I both build and destroy them, and I'll tell you what's true,

The ending or mending depends on what works best for you.

It's not about saving a name or a vow,

It's finding the life that you'd love to live now.

For some, the new marriage is built from the same,

Two people who both want to play a fresh game.

We clear out the rubble and start from what’s sound,

A love worth building from is there to be found.

I both build and destroy them, and I'll tell you what's true,

The ending or mending depends on what works best for you.

It's not about saving a name or a vow,

It's finding the life that you'd love to live now.

For some, a great divorce is the kindest of doors,

A clean ending opens new vistas to explore.

To part without rancor, all sides walking free,

Is its own kind of gift, one of life’s jubilees.

I both build and destroy them, and I'll tell you what's true,

The ending or mending depends on what works best for you.

It's not about saving a name or a vow,

It's finding the life that you'd love to live now.

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